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You can’t see it, but you can feel it

This may sound strange, but…   One of the biggest things shaping workplace culture is often invisible.   It’s not the mission statement.   Not the strategy deck.   Not even the policies.   It’s the emotional tone leaders repeatedly transmit under pressure.   People are constantly reading leadership energy.   They notice:   pace…

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Was the Pursuit of Happiness meant to be a Solo Journey?

As Americans, we’re about to celebrate Independence Day.   We’ll gather with family and friends, watch fireworks, wave flags, and remember one of the most remarkable ideas ever written into a nation’s founding document: That each of us has the right to pursue happiness.   Not happiness itself.   The pursuit of it.   I’ve…

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Becoming

Last week I had the privilege of attending my granddaughter’s high school graduation.   Like many family celebrations, it involved travel, gathering, laughter, photos, stories, and more than a few moments of wondering how time could possibly move this fast.   As I watched the graduates cross the stage in their bright blue gowns, I…

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What We Don’t See

One of the things I’ve learned after decades of working with leaders is that our biggest challenges are often hidden in plain sight. Not because we’re unwilling to look. Because we don’t know they’re there.   I once worked with a leader who cared deeply about her people. She listened, supported, and worked harder than…

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